Najbardziej zazdrosna kobieta\u201d zmusza swojego partnera do poddania si\u0119 testowi wykrywacza k\u0142amstw za ka\u017cdym razem,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
gdy wraca do domu Debbi my\u015bla\u0142a, \u017ce odkry\u0142a mi\u0142o\u015b\u0107 swojego \u017cycia, gdy po raz pierwszy spotka\u0142a Steve’a w 2011 roku. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale wielu jest zaskoczonych jej intensywn\u0105 zazdro\u015bci\u0105 i krokami, kt\u00f3re podejmuje, aby zagwarantowa\u0107 jego wierno\u015b\u0107.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
W zwi\u0105zkach zazdro\u015b\u0107 mo\u017ce by\u0107 silnym i niszcz\u0105cym uczuciem. Podczas gdy dla wi\u0119kszo\u015bci jest to przej\u015bciowa emocja, dla innych ludzi zamienia si\u0119 w parali\u017cuj\u0105c\u0105 fiksacj\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zmuszanie wsp\u00f3\u0142ma\u0142\u017conka do poddania si\u0119 testowi wykrywacza k\u0142amstw za ka\u017cdym razem, gdy wraca do domu, jest kontrowersyjn\u0105 i szeroko obserwowan\u0105 praktyk\u0105, kt\u00f3ra wynika z drastycznych metod radzenia sobie z zazdro\u015bci\u0105 przez jedn\u0105 kobiet\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Debbi i Steve Wood s\u0105 par\u0105 od 2011 roku. Debbi pozna\u0142a Steve’a podczas pobytu w jej rodzinnej Szkocji, przez wsp\u00f3lnego znajomego na Facebooku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Przez kilka tygodni wymieniali si\u0119 SMS-ami, zanim pojecha\u0142a do Londynu na ich pierwsz\u0105 randk\u0119. \u201eWiedzia\u0142am, \u017ce jeste\u015bmy sobie przeznaczeni w chwili, gdy poca\u0142owali\u015bmy si\u0119 po raz pierwszy pod London Bridge\u201d — wspomina. Po moim poprzednim zwi\u0105zku nie zamierza\u0142am ponownie si\u0119 zakocha\u0107, ale Steve skrad\u0142 moje serce\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ich romans wkr\u00f3tce przerodzi\u0142 si\u0119 w co\u015b powa\u017cniejszego i zaplanowali wsp\u00f3lne zamieszkanie, a ostatecznie zawarcie zwi\u0105zku ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144skiego. Debbi przyzna\u0142a, \u017ce ona i Steve nie zawsze si\u0119 zgadzaj\u0105, ale wiedzia\u0142a, \u017ce Steve jest tym jedynym, gdy sprawia\u0142, \u017ce czu\u0142a si\u0119 komfortowo i swobodnie. \u201eC\u00f3\u017c, nie zamierzasz pozwoli\u0107 mu odej\u015b\u0107, prawda, kiedy masz dobrego m\u0119\u017cczyzn\u0119?\u201d powiedzia\u0142a w wywiadzie dla \u00bbThis Morning\u00ab w ITV. Ale gdy intensywna zazdro\u015b\u0107 Debbi zacz\u0119\u0142a si\u0119 ujawnia\u0107, ich zwi\u0105zek sta\u0142 si\u0119 znacznie trudniejszy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ze wzgl\u0119du na diagnoz\u0119 zespo\u0142u Othello — choroby psychicznej, kt\u00f3ra powoduje, \u017ce pacjenci wierz\u0105, \u017ce ich ma\u0142\u017conkowie ich zdradzaj\u0105 bez \u017cadnych dowod\u00f3w — Debbi musia\u0142a podj\u0105\u0107 ekstremalne kroki. Chocia\u017c Debbi by\u0142a kiedy\u015b \u201eprzeci\u0119tn\u0105 zazdrosn\u0105 kobiet\u0105\u201d, jej zazdro\u015b\u0107 sta\u0142a si\u0119 bardziej intensywna, gdy zosta\u0142a zdradzona przez agresywnego ma\u0142\u017conka. Steve powiedzia\u0142 gospodarzom \u201eThis Morning\u201d, \u017ce wykorzystanie test\u00f3w wykrywacza k\u0142amstw znacznie si\u0119 zmniejszy\u0142o. S\u0105 one przeprowadzane \u201eraz na jaki\u015b czas\u201d lub \u201etyle razy w miesi\u0105cu, ile w ci\u0105gu tygodnia\u201d. Aktywno\u015b\u0107 Steve’a jest jednak nadal mocno ograniczona. Chocia\u017c lubi ogl\u0105da\u0107 pi\u0142k\u0119 no\u017cn\u0105 i wy\u015bcigi formu\u0142y,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Debbi ma oko na te programy, aby upewni\u0107 si\u0119, \u017ce nie gapi si\u0119 na \u017cadn\u0105 z kobiet na widowni. Czasami zazdro\u015b\u0107 Debbi jest tak silna, \u017ce zabrania Steve’owi ogl\u0105dania telewizji. \u201eWszystkie kobiety maj\u0105 wewn\u0119trzne pi\u0119kno, ale dla m\u0119\u017cczyzny to wykracza poza to — to mentalne po\u017c\u0105danie kobiety\u201e — wyja\u015bni\u0142a kobieta. wyobra\u017caj\u0105c sobie intymne fantazje na ich temat, zamiast po prostu docenia\u0107 ich pi\u0119kno w prawdziwym \u017cyciu\u201d. Ze wzgl\u0119du na swoje pragnienie kontroli i paranoj\u0119, Debbi podda\u0142a Steve’a rygorystycznym przepisom. Nie mo\u017ce on czyta\u0107 wyra\u017anych informacji na swoim telefonie lub laptopie, poniewa\u017c za\u0142o\u017cy\u0142a na nie filtry zabezpieczaj\u0105ce przed dzie\u0107mi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Powiedzia\u0142a, \u017ce Steve b\u0119dzie musia\u0142 zda\u0107 egzamin na wykrywaczu k\u0142amstw, gdy wr\u00f3ci nawet z pi\u0119tnastominutowej wycieczki po mleko. \u201eTak si\u0119 martwi\u0119, \u017ce obserwuje sprzedawc\u0119, \u017ce po prostu musz\u0119 zna\u0107 prawd\u0119\u201d. W styczniu 2019 roku \u201eOnly Human\u201d opublikowa\u0142 film dokumentalny, w kt\u00f3rym zazdro\u015b\u0107 Debbi zosta\u0142a ujawniona, gdy zmusi\u0142a Steve’a do poddania si\u0119 testowi wykrywaczem k\u0142amstw w stylu poligrafu na jej telefonie. Sta\u0142o si\u0119 to po tym, jak Debbi, po raz pierwszy od o\u015bmiu miesi\u0119cy, zosta\u0142a nam\u00f3wiona przez Steve’a do odwiedzenia ich sklepu w s\u0105siedztwie. Debbi podj\u0119\u0142a decyzj\u0119, by sprawdzi\u0107 lojalno\u015b\u0107 Steve’a po ich powrocie. W odpowiedzi na jej pocz\u0105tkowe pytanie, czy widzia\u0142 jakie\u015b kobiety w sklepie, powiedzia\u0142: \u201eNie mog\u0119 powiedzie\u0107, jak to zrobi\u0142em\u201d. Nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Debbie spoke to him, seeming reassured, \u201cI\u2019m impressed you\u2019re telling the truth.\u201d But the app said that Steve\u2019s denial that he thought Mel B was attractive was a lie. Debbi repeatedly made him retake the exam and accused him of lying. According to Debbi, the app employed a polygraph and was at least 60% accurate.Debbi\u2019s mental health and interpersonal dynamics are further complicated by her bipolar disease and body dysmorphic disorder, in addition to her Othello Syndrome. Debbi\u2019s jealousy increased when they moved in together for the first time. Debbie started monitoring Steve\u2019s internet activities and even forbade him from viewing any material with female content. \u201cOne night, an advert for a women\u2019s razor came on television and I felt panicky thinking that Steve was eyeing the model up,\u201d Debbi recalled. She got a lie detector online because she was so jealous that she thought Steve could be daydreaming. We\u2019ve noticed Debbi\u2019s condition and activities. She alleged thereafter that she was misled in the Channel 5 documentary \u201c87 stone: Fat Chance of Work,\u201d in which she starred in 2015. She said that the documentary unfairly highlighted her weight instead of the real issues preventing her from finding employment. Debbi became even more alone as a result of the threats and hatred she received online as a result of this portrayal.Debbi clarified that although Steve was actually supporting her during a trying period, the documentary gave the impression that she was controlling him. \u201cEverything has been made overly dramatic. I can\u2019t even want to leave the house because of the horrible threats and outright hatred I\u2019ve received on social media,\u201d the woman claimed. Debbi maintains that her jealously-driven actions are essential to her mental health in spite of this. Debbi and Steve have managed to survive in spite of these drastic measures. They both play a lot of video games, which, according to Debbi, has helped her deal with her Othello Syndrome. \u201cPlaying the Xbox so much has helped me get some control over my jealousy,\u201d she revealed. Instead of me becoming obsessed with what my spouse is doing, my mind has been able to wander.\u201dStudies reveal that about 15% of individuals with Othello Syndrome have acted violently against their relationships. Debbi acknowledged, \u201cI\u2019ve been driven to the brink of jealousy and have occasionally thrown things across the room.\u201d I know Steve is the one for me because he has supported me through everything, even though I put him through a lot.\u201d \u201cI believe that many ladies may be experiencing the same issue but may not be aware of it. I believe it\u2019s a result of the pressure society places on us to have a specific appearance.Others might not be as fortunate as I am that my boyfriend is so understanding,\u201d the woman continued.Although he acknowledged that Debbi may be difficult at times, Steve maintained that she was worth it. He said: \u201cMy heart pounding, I get anxious sometimes and the lie detector test comes back unclear, which makes Debbi doubt me.\u201d I simply need to assure her that I haven\u2019t cheated, and I hope she would believe me. I\u2019m ready to put up with it since I am certain that we are meant to be. I love her so much, and a little envy now and then won\u2019t change that.\u201dDebbi has decided to get gastric band surgery, which she thinks the NHS would pay for, in order to gain more confidence. \u201cI wasn\u2019t always overweight, therefore I had a modest frame. Debbi remarked, \u201cThis small frame is carrying an extra ten or eleven stone above what it should be.\u201dShe stressed how having the surgery would boost her confidence in general and her physical health in particular. Debbi is hoping that having the operation will help her feel more normal and enjoy life with Steve.Have you had fun reading this story?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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